Why Can't I Get My Ex Back? 3 Unattractive Things You Wouldn't Like Yourself, So Why Would Your Ex?

Published: 07th September 2010
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You are sitting here wondering why you can't get your ex back, and I bet it's frustrating the heck out of you. But, the fact of the matter is, most of the reasons behind WHY your ex isn't taking you back, are actually the same things you hate yourself and wouldn't accept from your ex.

So why, then, are you doing it to your ex?

Read on to find out the 3 reasons why your ex doesn't take you back....

1. Letting yourself go

As mentioned, most of the things you do to your ex, you wouldn't accept for yourself...would you like to be with someone who has let themselves go and really doesn't care about keeping themselves in the best shape possible?

Obviously not...now what I am talking about here doesn't strictly refer to your physicality (such as gaining lots of weight, dressing badly, avoiding working out, not maintaining upkeep such as your hair or skin), but rather I am also referring to your mental health.

If you are acting extremely depressed and aren't doing anything, this is very unattractive and it's one of the core reasons why your ex is NOT wanting to take you back.


2. Using low blows

You may use these thinking that they are a GOOD reason for your ex to take you back, such as saying things like:

"No one will love you like me..."... "You won't find anyone better..."... and of course using personal low blows to insult your ex anytime that they do not do as you wish, or when they don't immediately accept you back.

This could also lead to huge arguments about the past and things you did, and can become a vicious cycle. Low blows are not good and will not get your ex back, and under no circumstance, should you continue to use them, as they really just push your ex away, or hurt them more.

3. Being the most desperate soul on the planet...

Remind yourself that your ex was not INITIALLY attracted to you because you were desperate, but rather, because you were composed and dependant.

However since the break up, you have completely made yourself appear unattractive by begging, pleading, crying, apologizing 1000 times, calling all the time, showing up where you think they may be, and arguing.


Your ex will only believe that you are having such a strong reaction, because they have left, and will assume that you only want them now that you think you cannot have them, which in turn makes them feel extremely unappreciated.

It will also give your ex the impression that you never cared about them as much as you do now, when you were together, and if you were together for a long time, your ex will feel as though they had wasted months and even years with someone who didn't even care.

Pay Close Attention Here-

Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here





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