How to Get Him to Move In! Here is What You Need to Do in Order to Make the Man Move in With You

If dating is not good enough for you, and you feel you are ready to share your bed and your space with the special man in your life, you will need to bring on some smooth moves to get him to move in with you willingly. You may wonder, "Why not just ask him about it?" Moving in is a big deal to guys, so if you don't want to send him sprinting in the same direction, you should never ask a guy blatantly, to pack up his bags (and his life) and live with you. But there are several ways you can get him to do it, without the least bit of effort.

Test the waters first. Ask yourself, do you really want him moving in with you? They say moving in changes relationships. What if you discover habits he has which would really drive you to your wit's ends? You can test waters but letting him sleep over for a few days. The perfect time to let him into your home is the weekend. You can both unwind indoors, and you can really see how much of a housemate he is.

You can tell him to leave a few personal articles behind. Casually tell him he can leave his toothbrush or an extra pair of boxers in your home, so that he doesn't have to bring them the next time he stays for the night. Also, tell him how you got that warm, fuzzy feeling when you saw his stuff and were reminded of him.

Let him house-sit whenever possible. You're entrusting your home to him, and it tells him you trust him. Also, it allows him to share your personal space, but without you there, so it isn't too imposing and pressuring. He will get to know how you take care of your plants (if any) and pets. Giving him a sense of responsibility in your home makes him feel like he's a part of it.

Leave a spare key and tell him where you hide it. He will love the fact that he can come see you anytime he wants, and he doesn't have to knock, or wait for you when you aren't home. Who knows? He just might get a great idea and surprise you by letting himself in, cooking you dinner and cleaning up a bit.

Don't refer to your pad as "my pad". These pronouns make you sound so possessive of your home, and it doesn't exactly say much about wanting to share. Instead, call your place "home". Towards the end of a date, ask him affectionately, "Shall we go home?" to set the mood right. Asking him, "Shall we go back to my place?" is so date # 1.

Make him feel productive. Make him feel how much you love having a man in your home. You can finally ask him to help out with a busted light bulb, and do a little repainting here and there. Again, you're making him feel as though he's already part of your home. Whatever ambiance it has, he has contributed to it.

Make your place his resting abode when his pad is too filthy and noisy. It's a guy thing, but once in a while, he would want to just chill without stepping on beer bottles or sighing over undone dishes. Make comments about how bad living conditions are at his pad, and casually offer a stay at yours anytime he feels like it.

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