Traditionally, a man takes the initiative; he asks a woman out, does the chasing and the wooing and pops the question. But what about those women who want go after the guy they want or that desperate crush they can't ignore? Men like confident women who aren't afraid to take a risk so here are some pointers to asking a guy out.
Flirt with the man. Give him that special smile, move just a little closer, hold his eye and strike up conversation that draws him out and allows him to see that you're interested in him and what he has to say. Don't ever sleep with a man on the first date; regardless of how open minded you may be, holding back and being inaccessible on that front makes him respect you.
Don't be too direct. While men like confident women, don't scare him off by "Do you want to go out?" Be honest in your manner that you like him but find out what he's into. Then suggest an outing that coincides with an interest of his that you'll both enjoy or something that you are willing to try.
Ask him to his face. If you're asking him out, do it face to face. Don't send him a text or an e-mail; it's too impersonal and tells him that while you may be interested, you're not interested enough to make an effort to talk to him in person.
Silence is golden. Don't ask him about his finances. Firstly, its bad manners and none of your business until you go steady. And secondly, it makes you look like a gold digger.
Play it cool. Don't push him or be desperate in your approach. Be cool so he's not pressured and realizes you like him but respect his need to make a choice about you without pressure.
Relax. The man should be in a comfortable environment when you ask him out. Don't do it front of his friends or business associates; do it when you have him alone and he's not engaged in another activity so as to distract him from you.
Be honest. Don't pretend to be something you're not. Be honest about who you are and what you're about. It's very attractive when a potential squeeze is comfortable with themselves and their life and wants you to be a part of that life.
The worst thing that can happen is he'll say no but at least you tried and won't have any regrets. And if he doesn't realise how great you are, it's his loss.
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