Don't Do These Blunders! 4 Mistakes You Should Never Make If You Really Want to Get Your Ex Back!

Published: 07th September 2010
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So you want your ex back. This is okay, if you really believe that your ruined past relationship deserves another chance, especially if you were the one who caused your ex to go away. You see, at this very moment, I bet you are doing a few things that you shouldn't because you want to get your ex back. But, if you are not sure how you are going to do this, there are at least four mistakes you should never make if you want your ex back:

Sneaky tactics...Sometimes they work but most of the times they don't...

- If you start spreading embarrassing stories about your ex to mutual friends, do not expect this to pull him/her back anytime soon. Neither will these dirty tricks sit well with most of your friends as it shows that you are a bad sport. So put those embarrassing stories at the back of your mind and do not let them out.

- Another sneaky tactic that people try, is to pretend that they need help or that they have an "emergency", but trust me, emergencies will only make your ex really mad, it's like crying wolf. Don't try it.


Begging and pleading...

- Begging and pleading will not bring your ex back, but it might also chase them further away. Leave your dignity intact along with what little chance you have of getting back together with your ex. The reason why this will not work is that this will show your ex that you have weak character, which may not be viewed as attractive.

- Your ex also cannot stand it when you act really pathetic, and it's such a turn off. No one wants to be around someone who cannot even respect themselves.

Getting clingy...Desperation is the main attraction killer...

- Now that you are no longer together, you should be conscious about being too clingy with your ex. Do not call him/her every minute or show up at his/her office or home everyday. Smothering your ex with affection, or not giving him/her the chance to do other things will only annoy your ex even more. Your neediness will only strengthen your ex's decision to leave you.

- This is literally the same thing as being desperate, and it really doesn't look good for you. Why ruin things after the breakup for yourself, by letting yourself go literally? Get some self control and show your ex why they should take you back by acting like someone they deserve in the first place.


Threatening...

- Nothing will chase your ex away faster than making threats towards him/her. If you even remotely consider getting back together with your ex, threatening him/her should be avoided at all costs. You may think that scaring your ex into speaking to you or coming back to you is effective, but all you might end up with is a restraining order.

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